Counting calories: not useful, you do not need it

It is complicated and it stops you from listening to your body

Counting calories gives you and exact number but that is unlikely to be true and it stops you from listening to your body. Photo by Sumudu Mohottige on Unsplash

If counting calories works for you (i.e. it helps you to maintain the weight you want to have) and you are committed to continue doing it long-term, by all means, count calories.

This actually applies to everything I recommend or not in this blog. If you are doing something different that works for you, it is healthy and feasible long-term, just keep doing that.

For those of you who count calories but are not seeing the result you want, I suggest you stop.

This is why.

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Deconditioning the urge to eat something you do not want to eat

More on processing urges: track success, analyse failures

Track 100 processed cravings/urges to snack, you are done! Photo by Marcel Eberle on Unsplash

Have you been processing urges?

Fantastic, it will have given you lots of practice. It will have prepared you for the recommendations I will give you in this post. You do not need to have succeed with every urge. It is the practice that matters.

As long as you are:

  1. Committed to continue (100% committed)
  2. Understand why you’ve given in to the urge: ask yourself lots of questions, what were you thinking just before you eat? What ‘excuse’ did you use to allow yourself to eat that snack?
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How to process a craving. No willpower needed.

Initially, processing the urge to snack is hard

Stop using will power, process the craving instead – Photo by Gaby Fishman Fosbery on Unsplash

Why should you process a craving?

Are you following through with your plan to stop snacking? If you are I am sure you have experienced cravings.

Willpower?

No, thank you.

Are you using willpower to stop you from snacking?

It works. Initially.

Unfortunately, it only works for a while.

That is why we get mixed up. We use willpower; it works for a bit. We think it is the solution.

However, we cannot keep it for long. We give up. We think there is something wrong with us.

What about trying something different?

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Stop snacking to stop overeating: the one thing everyone can do

A simple rule which does not mean it is easy one

The day before, make a plan, no snacks today

To stop snacking, plan it ahead and consistently

From last post you know that overeating is the problem. Stop snacking to stop overeating, a simple and effective way I recommend to get started. 

The day before, make a plan. Make this plan when you are not hungry or thinking about food. Tomorrow I will not eat snacks. Commit your goal to paper. Write it down, not just it in your head.

Snacks are any food eaten between the main meals.

Snacks are more often than not a source of food that our body does not need.

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Overeating is the cause, excess weight is the symptom

Understanding food, eating and overeating

Overeating is due to an over desire for foods and excess hunger for what your body physiological needs are

Today’s post is about understanding the purpose of food, eating as a behaviour and the main reasons for why we overeat. 

You will discover the specific causes that drive you to overeat and why you feel that you can’t control your eating. Solving these will be the cornerstone to establish a new, positive habit around food.

I have a slightly different format for this post. 

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Commit to stop overeating and to your new weight

Keep this commitment no matter what

A 100% commitment to stop overeating to lose weight means you keep going, don’t stop until it becomes easy.

You want to lose weight, maybe you want to stop overeating. 

You’ve tried it before. Are you sceptical?

I have two questions for you: 

  1. What’s your current weight? 
  2. Why are you committed to your current weight? 

You don’t know it but you are actually committed to your current weight.

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Why do you want to lose weight? What motivates you?

Finding your why(s)?

Find your why(s): many compelling reasons that will keep you going when it gets difficult
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Today’s post is about your motivation to lose weight. What are the reasons that will keep you going? Not just this month but the next, and next year and the following. Specifically, what are the reasons that will keep you going when it gets tough?

When you know why you want to stop overeating you will stop trying.

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Overeating and weight loss: ‘focus’ for faster results

For now, focus on this one goal and only this one

Focus: change one behaviour at a time

Have you started?

Fantastic! Now it is time to focus.

How many other goals do you have?

You might want to be healthier. It might not just be the weight. You may want to drink less, start exercising or exercise more consistently. Stop working long hours and have energy for other things in your life. Read more. See friends more often. Have better relationships.

The list is probably long and that’s great.

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